As a small business owner, you are an entrepreneur in your own right. Many entrepreneurs have mentors—in other words, experienced people with similar values and goals—who are invested in their success. However, given the pressures of modern business life, it can be a challenge to find mentor candidates willing to spend time cultivating you, unless doing so contributes to their company's bottom line. Since it is unlikely mentors will come to you, how can you get out there to find one?
The answer is simple: networking. Here is a closer look at mentorship, and the ways you can find a mentor (or mentors) who will help you along your road to success:
Mentorship
Successful mentorship can help you set bigger goals, and even start to think bigger as your confidence in your own leadership improves.As you reach out to established business people, consider these qualities: They should be frank when sharing advice, and they should be people whose constructive criticism you will invite and accept. Be clear in your mind about what kind of help you seek, and why you would respect a particular person's advice.A mentor does not have to be someone who will serve as the ultimate role model and answer all your questions—you have to branch out and develop a core team of mentors with the traits you admire and want to learn from. This will be your "mentor board of directors," composed of people who excel at, or have profound knowledge of, a particular niche crucial to your company's growth. In short, benefit from the wisdom of individuals with varied skills.
Networking
Networking is about forming meaningful, invaluable connections with like-minded people. That is why a team of your peers may give you the best advice.
Online connections
Online forums allow you to seek mentorship from people you do not know personally, but whose experience and perspectives you admire. The key is to engage these people in discussions prior to asking them to be your mentor to prove you are worthy of their time, and vice versa. Social networks such as LinkedIn can be invaluable here.
Some colleges and universities offer online courses that can help strengthen your skills, while also introducing you to people with different kinds of business expertise. You will find a host of potential mentors in this pool of professors, instructors, and fellow classmates; afterward, you may be able to approach them in person and see if they can fit your purpose.
In-person networking events
These offer the best opportunity for you to impress—be ready to stand out from the crowd.
Industry-specific networking events. Conferences, seminars, and workshops are usually teeming with experts who are experienced in their fields, making these events ripe grounds for your mentor search. Exchange business cards and arrange to get coffee or a drink later, during which you can broach the subject of mentorship, gauge your overall compatibility, and above all, get a sense of their interest in mentoring you.
Volunteer. Your chances of pitching to potential mentors increase when you put in the time to volunteer for a nonprofit organization, or offer assistance in setting up or organizing an industry event. Your commitment makes an impression on potential mentors.
Be proactive and take the lead. Instead of just joining business associations as a member or attending conferences, assume a leadership role, perhaps as a committee chair or panel moderator. The movers and shakers in your industry will notice and may be more inclined to become your mentors.
Mentoring organizations
Approach entities that can connect you with potential mentors. One example is the SCORE program, which can link you up with a network of business executives. SCORE has tens of thousands of volunteer mentors spread over 60 industries that you can communicate with by phone or e-mail.
Running a business is demanding, and new challenges may leave you feeling like you are in it alone. Like any other entrepreneur, you should have like-minded friends to avoid the trap of the "me against the world" mind-set. Start networking to identify candidates who are willing to take you under their wings. This business mentor—or your mentor board of directors—will act as your role model, someone who inspires, encourages, and advises you. With time, you will become a mentor to other business owners just starting to learn the ropes, and it will be an ongoing fulfilling experience.
